A few evenings ago, I was speaking freely with one of Mine and he decided that he should interject his disrespectful opinion about My mother and My sister, suggesting that I should not rely on them as My best friends. I found this horribly disprespectful. Were he here, his mouth would have been washed out with dish soap. Another punishment would have been to have him milked, have his cum frozen and having him be made to eat it with chocolate sauce and a cherry on top, with a spoon, like it was ice cream. Since he is still currently in the UK working on finding a job in Michigan so that he may come and serve under My feet, My punishment was this: Write an essay on the issue of Respecting not only a Domina but said Domina's family. The conditions were that he needed ten paragraphs and it was to be written by midnight. In less than an hour, I received this essay in My e-mail box. Here it is for you to read. Nothing has been modified.

The D/s relationship relies upon the respect of the
servant. In my case this is the role of the feminised
`butleress` and the divine goddess. This respect takes
many forms.

The duties given by the goddess are to be carried out
happily and without question. This relies on a certain
trust that the domme will not inflict any real damage
or pain. The duties are set to encourage the
psychological states of subduedness and
submissiveness.

When addressing the domme a respectful tone and manner
must be employed. There should be no question by
outsiders of whom is in control of the conversation.
Equally the domme should exercise language
constrictions upon her property, for the same reasons.

Sometimes, and necessarily so, the imperfect butleress
will make mistakes. Punishment should be certain and
swift. It should not be, contrary to popular belief,
pleasurable to the servant. Tasks which enourage quiet
embarrassment are the most effective.

The very worst kind of disobediance is deliberate
disrespect to a domme and/or her family. This, if
repeated, can be unforgivable. The servant should be
encouraged to view the people the domme respects as
truly above the slave in every respect.

Making amends for the failure to respect a domme and
her family is possible. The task should be monotonous
and encourage the slave to reflect, throught the
beauty of time. A self-reflective essay is perfect for
this.

Continued disobediance in this matter is very serious
indeed. But before acting the domme must examine the
motivation of the slave. Have they merely hit upon a
way to ensure a response from their negative
behaviour?

If this is suspected the course of action must change.
A set punishment should be inflicted in proportion to
the frequency of the offence. As has often been said,
this revenge is best served quickly certainly and
cold.

Ultimately, should the slave fail to mend their ways,
disposal is a fair outcome. A servant who doesnt
listen is not a servant at all. The domme should feel
confident in her judgement in this matter.

In conclusion, respect is essential in the dommes
governance. The servant will nearly always have a
means to address the inpropiety in the first instance.
Subsequent disrespect will be met more harshly.

Butleress

1. DO NOT CONTACT ME WITHOUT A PICTURE.
If you don’t have a picture on your myspace or are not willing to email them to Me, I will not respond to your message.

2. ALWAYS BE RESPECTFUL.
If your message is not respectful and humble enough to be pleasing for Me to read, I will not respond.

3. DO NOT LIE TO ME.
This rule is grounds for complete dismissal. I’m serious - if you lie to Me, I will cease contact with you and you will no longer have the attention from This GODDESS that you so crave.

4. EXPECT TO PAY TRIBUTE ON A REGULAR BASIS.
Don’t think that I will speak with you in the first place if I don’t receive TRIBUTE first. Every week thereafter you will be expected to pay TRIBUTE consisting of MONEY/GIFTS.

5. REALIZE THAT YOU ARE NOTHING TO ME AND THAT I AM ABOVE YOU.
This means that no, I don’t want to date you. No, I don’t want to know about your day. No, I don’t want to go to dinner with you. It would be inappropriate to ask the Queen of England to lunch, wouldn’t it? No. So get on your fucking knees and offer Me something I like. MONEY AND GIFTS. Got it?

6. NO BULLSHIT.
I can smell bullshit from a mile away. I don’t put up with it now, nor will I EVER put up with it. That means that if you honestly do not want to TRIBUTE with CASH/GIFTS, you can move on to the next profile.

7. DO NOT ASK ME TO CALL YOU.
If I wish to speak with you on the phone, you will call My niteflirt when I get it up and running and PAY to hear My voice.

8. BOYS THAT WEAR GLASSES AND ARE WILLING AND ABLE TO TRIBUTE WILL RECEIVE SPECIAL ATTENTION.
Yes, you read correctly. I favor males that wear glasses.

WORTHLESS PIGGIES THAT DO NOT FOLLOW THE ABOVE STATED RULES AND ANY OTHER THAT I MAY APPLY AT ANY TIME WILL BE BLACKLISTED.